I know we’ve all heard the saying, “Walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.” I thought of those words and later saw this photograph of a man mourning his wife and two sons. My heart could empathize his pain, but I couldn’t imagine losing two children and a spouse in one day! The concept for my poem, Beyond Glitter and Scuff came to my mind after I thought of tragic incidents. We often do not realize no one’s life is picture-perfect. I hope you’ll appreciate the message I am trying to convey with my words:
Beyond Glitter and Scuff:
Artistic toes, pedicure on display
Rich girl, glitter flip flops, labeled: Cliché
Behind mansion doors, bottled liquor flows
Father’s working late, but Mother knows
Behind fancy wheels, Mother slurs,
“Need more booze”
Girl masks pain hidin’ truths, wearin’ pretty shoes
Scuffed up leather boots, an outdated style
Kids call him, “Tightwad-Toe-Covered-Crocodile”
Big farmhouse, rows of crops, expansive land
Drunk driver rearranged life, alone he stands
Travels down gravel roads; thanking God for life
Boots fit like home–last gift from sons and wife
Beyond glitter and scuff, lies three headstones.
Author of Eulogies Unspoken: Stories of Worth, Caring for Dad: With Love and Tomatoes, and the YA novel Love at the Center of Grief, which won an IPPY award! Most recently, I wrote the sequel, Beyond the Center of Grief. It is my mission to continue my Summerfort Grief Series for teens. The deaths of my parents inspired me to write. It's my goal to share my grief journey through stories and poems. I write from the heart with the hope to help others heal. I volunteer as a group facilitator at the Lost and Found Grief Center in Missouri. And for twenty-five years I was an at-risk teacher for grades 9-12.